The Power of You

22/12/2011 15:35

What can you do with this power? Everything! The power is within each and every one of us to bring about change in the world. You can quiet the negative thoughts in your mind, you can embrace the positive. All it takes is a different BlackBerry BCP-620 question point of view. Look for the good in every situation, see beneath the surface.
Do you realize that 99% of your decisions are made by your programs? Ok, so what does this mean? When you were little, you thought everything and anything was possible. As you grew, people you knew started putting limits/controls on these thoughts. Don't do this, don't think that, this is the way you should be... Get the picture!
By the time you reach your teens, you have developed a set of beliefs based on all the experiences that have occurred in your life, both good and bad. These are your programs that you let decide how you're going to react to life's experiences.
You may have developed a belief that you don't fit in or aren't good enough because of a time when something was said or overheard. You gave this event a meaning, a meaning that you now use to describe who you are. It's easy to get stuck in past experiences. It's easy to dwell on the pain and hurt you felt at that time. Your world becomes colored with shades of grey.
The way you react now could be in direct correlation to your past experiences. Are you really living a productive life following these old beliefs? The good news is you can change this. It all boils down to choice.
Hmmm, how many times have you heard that? Still, it's worth repeating over BlackBerry BCP-710 question and over again. In every aspect of your life you DO have the choice, the choice of how you perceive any event that happens. What price are you paying for continuing to believe and live with this non-productive program? Where is it showing up in your life?
The key is to remember that it was an event, nothing more, nothing less. YOU attach a meaning to the event based on your perceptions, your beliefs. This does not negate the fact that bad things do happen. Not at all. There is no way to control outside events. What you DO have control over is your reaction. Stop taking the blame for what you could not control.
A little exercise to assist you in changing this non-productive belief:· Write down what happened and how it made you feel. Just let the words flow. · Now, take a deep breath in...deep breath out... Ahhhhh, good. · Take those negative thoughts and write them down in an empowering manner on another piece of paper.· Change the words to I am worthy of..., I am a great person because.., I am ok with... · Take the paper with the negative thoughts and burn it or rip it up in pieces and throw it away! Wipe those thoughts out of your head and heart.· Re-read the empowering statements again and again until you can feel the truth of them in your heart.
Get the idea of where I'm going with this?
These positive words empower you to feel great about yourself again. Doesn't it make you feel better just writing that down?! Yes, it may feel silly or weird and your inner voice is saying you're wrong, go back to the old way of thinking, but please, please, please don't let that old voice win out!
It's a matter of understanding the lesson in each situation. It's using that lesson to move yourself forward instead of digging a hole and hiding away. Building a shell to protect yourself also confines and restricts you. The capacity for growth is stopped.
Explore these emotionally charged events, find ways to be at peace with them. Understand that these were circumstances you had no control over. Embrace the good that is within you. It's NO0-002 there, let it all shine through. Do you know why? Because you have the wonderful gift that is YOU to share with the world!
I look forward to meeting you, to learn and share with you, to call you friend. Can you feel the excitement? I can!

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